The How, What, and Why of Discussion
From: The Generous Wife When calmer minds prevail, take the time to explain to your husband that you want to understand “what” he is saying and understand the “why” of his heart too, but that his “how” is getting in the way. Be quick to apologize if your “how” is a part of the problem, as well. Say what you mean, but don’t say it mean. Andrea Wachter