神眼中的婚姻與離婚｜Marriage & Divorce in the Eyes of God

🟩 一、結婚在神眼中何時成立？
1. When Is a Marriage Considered Valid in God's Eyes?

✅ A. 基督徒能依政府法律與聖經標準結婚的情況
A. When Christians Marry Legally and Biblically

• 一男一女，彼此在神眼中皆有自由結婚的資格／A man and a woman who, in the eyes of God, are both free to marry.

  ✅ 在神眼中符合結（再）婚條件者包括 / Those who are considered biblically eligible for marriage (remarriage) include：

  • 從未結婚過者（未婚）/ Those who have never been married (single)

  • 配偶已亡者（喪偶）/ Those whose spouse has died (widowed)

  • 配偶曾犯淫亂、已離婚者，且當事人為無過錯方 / Those who have divorced a spouse due to that spouse’s sexual immorality, being themselves the innocent party

• 在神面前立約（誓言） / A covenant made before God (vows)
• 接受政府的合法登記 / Legal registration under the government

🔹這是在神眼中完整且無爭議的婚姻，應當遵守。
🔹This is a complete and undisputed marriage in God's eyes and should be honored.

📖 經文支持 / Scripture: 創2:24、羅13:1–7、瑪2:14 / Genesis 2:24; Romans 13:1–7; Malachi 2:14

⚠️ B. 基督徒無法依法結婚（如政府制度崩壞），但符合聖經標準
B. When Christians Cannot Marry Legally, But Meet Biblical Standards

•  一男一女，彼此在神眼中皆有自由結婚的資格／A man and a woman who, in the eyes of God, are both free to marry.
• 在神面前彼此立約、終身委身 / A mutual covenant of lifelong commitment before God
• 真實承擔配偶責任 / Genuine assumption of marital responsibilities

🔹這樣的婚姻在神眼中可算為真實婚姻。
🔹Such a union may still be counted as a true marriage in God's eyes.

🔸應避免 / Avoid:

• 隱密關係 / Secretive relationships
• 曖昧同居 / Ambiguous cohabitation
• 不承擔責任的結合 / Irresponsible unions driven by lust

✅ C. 非基督徒依法結婚，並符合聖經原則
C. When Non-Christians Marry Legally and in Accord with Biblical Principles

• 一男一女，彼此在神眼中皆有自由結婚的資格／A man and a woman who, in the eyes of God, are both free to marry.
• 遵守當地法律與文化結婚程序 / Marriage carried out according to local legal and cultural procedures

🔹這樣的婚姻在神眼中是真實婚姻，因婚姻制度乃神賜給全人類的普遍恩典。
🔹Such marriages are valid in God's eyes, for the institution of marriage is part of God's common grace.

📖 經文支持 / Scripture: 林前7:12–14、創2:24 / 1 Corinthians 7:12–14; Genesis 2:24

⚠️ D. 非基督徒無法依法結婚（如戰亂、制度缺失），但符合聖經原則
D. When Non-Christians Cannot Marry Legally, But Meet Biblical Criteria

• 一男一女，彼此在神眼中皆有自由結婚的資格／A man and a woman who, in the eyes of God, are both free to marry.
• 在社群或文化中公開承諾為夫妻 / Public commitment within their culture or community
• 履行配偶責任與家庭義務 / Fulfilling marital duties and responsibilities

🔹即便無法律文件，這樣的婚姻在神眼中亦成立。
🔹Even without legal documents, such a marriage may still be valid before God.

🔸若僅基於情慾、短暫關係、曖昧同居，即使彼此「相愛」，也不構成婚姻。
🔸If based merely on passion or vague cohabitation, it's not marriage in God’s sight.

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🟥 二、離婚在神眼中何時成立？
2. When Is a Divorce Considered Valid in God's Eyes?

▶ 聖經唯一認可的離婚理由：配偶犯姦淫
The Bible permits divorce only for one reason: adultery by one spouse

👉 無辜一方可選擇離婚並再婚（太19:9）
👉 The innocent party may divorce and remarry (Matthew 19:9)

▶ 離婚需區分兩層意義：
Two layers must be distinguished:

• 政府離婚 / Legal divorce: 法律上解除婚姻
• 聖經離婚 / Biblical divorce: 神眼中符合真理的釋放

✅ A. 基督徒依法離婚，並符合聖經（配偶犯姦淫）
A. A Christian Legally Divorces with Biblical Grounds

🔹此為神與人眼中皆認可的離婚，當事人可自由選擇是否再婚。
🔹This is recognized both legally and by God; the person is free to remarry.

📖 太19:9 / Matthew 19:9

⚠️ B. 基督徒無法取得政府離婚，但配偶犯姦淫
B. A Christian Cannot Obtain Legal Divorce, But Spouse Has Committed Adultery

情況 / Scenario：
配偶確實犯了姦淫，但由於政府不承認、不處理或制度崩壞，導致無法取得合法離婚文件。
The spouse has truly committed adultery, but the government either refuses to acknowledge it, denies divorce, or legal infrastructure has collapsed.

在神眼中：
雖然婚約已因對方的姦淫而被破壞，但在法律上仍受婚姻束縛。這是屬於一個非常艱難的處境，必須謹慎處理。
Though the covenant is broken in God's eyes due to adultery, the marriage remains legally binding. This is a deeply difficult situation requiring discernment.

建議行動 / Recommended Response：

• 應選擇守獨身，作為敬畏神與保護見證的選擇。
  Remaining unmarried is the most respectful choice to honor God and protect one's testimony.

• 即便神已看為釋放，若外在環境無法辨明，貿然再婚極易絆倒人。
  Even if spiritually released, visible remarriage without legal clarity may cause others to stumble.

• 僅當有極明確的屬靈分辨與教會肯定，方可慎重考慮後續行動。
  Only with clear spiritual discernment and affirmation from trusted leaders should further steps be considered.

✅ C. 非基督徒依法離婚，且理由符合聖經

C. A Non-Christian Legally Divorces with Biblical Grounds

🔹只要離婚原因合乎神的律法，在神眼中仍可能有效。
🔹If the reason aligns with God’s law, the divorce may be valid in His sight.

⚠️ D. 非基督徒無法取得政府離婚，但配偶犯姦淫
D. A Non-Christian Cannot Obtain Legal Divorce, But Spouse Has Committed Adultery

• 因戰亂、政府崩壞等無法取得合法離婚文件 / Legal divorce is impossible

🔹原則與基督徒相同：應守獨身，維護見證與道德清潔。
🔹Same principle applies: remain single for clarity of testimony.

❗️E. 婚姻破裂但無聖經離婚理由時（適用所有人）
E. When a Marriage Has Broken Down Without Biblical Grounds (For All)

▶ 若僅取得政府離婚，配偶無犯姦淫：
If legally divorced without adultery involved:

🔹在神眼中，婚約仍然有效，當事人不得再婚。
🔹Marriage bond remains; no freedom to remarry.

📖 哥林多前書 7:11 / 1 Corinthians 7:11
「若是離了，不可再嫁；或是仍同丈夫和好，或是仍守獨身。」
"But if she does leave, she must remain unmarried, or else be reconciled to her husband..."

可行原則 / Practical Guidance:

• 因家暴、精神疾病、信仰逼迫等可分居 / Separation for safety
• 分居不等於離婚 / Separation ≠ Divorce
• 無再婚自由 / No right to remarry