造就人的好話

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From Kwan Thai Chun

一句出自内心的简单话语， 带动大力量：
能控制住对方发火的语言： 对不起！
能培养谦虚人格的语言：谢谢！
能让对方挺起胸膛的语言： 你做得好！
能化解矛盾与隔阂的语言： 我错了！
能提高对方价值感的语言： 你很棒！
能带来更好结果的语言：你的想法如何呢？
能让人感觉温馨的语言：有没有需要我帮忙的？
能让对方的自信心像波浪滔天的语言：你是怎么想出来的？
能使热情泉涌的语言：年龄只不过是数字而已！
能鼓起对方勇气的语言：你可以的！
能不花钱却引起好感的语言 ：跟你在一起的感觉真好！
能让对方重拾信心的语言： 没关系，一切都会好起来的！
能对亲爱的人最有价值的语言：你是我的唯一！
能让对方感到与众不同的语言：你果然是不一样的！
能抚慰对方疲倦心情的语言 ：这些天你辛苦了！
【要随事说造就人的好话， 叫听见的人得益处。以弗所书 4:29】


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